Excuse Again?
When we fail to do something we are expected to do,
we almost always have an excuse for it. That's just
how our habit acts. But we have a choice to change that
for good.
If we analyze it closely -- an excuse is a self-destructive
alibi for having failed to do something, especially
when it involves attaining a goal. Instead of trying to
persevere in finding ways to continue achieving a goal,
some of us resort to excuses.
Why?
To avoid pain. Excuses. The best medicine.
But you should not use excuses for not becoming
successful! That's self-destructive.
Whenever we look at a "handicap", we almost always
look on the negative side only. It's about time we
take a look at the positive side of it. The positive
side may be the difficult side, but it's the one worth
looking into. It's the side that is going to lead us
to excel in life.
Hadicap can appeared in many forms -- Physical
handicap, mentally handicap, emotional handicap,
financial handicap, etc.
It your handicap is financial, then the more reason
you have to rise above your present status. And if
your financial status limits your educational
attainment to improve your life, do you really think
that you cannot get the education you want? Make use
of libraries. Come up with creative ideas to improve
your life and you will find it.
If you are emotionally disturbed with negative
thoughts, it is like you are sitting on a chair with
wobbling legs. Try sitting on a chair with sturdy
legs; meaning, look at the bright, positive side of
life. Put aside negativity and start thinking
positively. The only one who can stop you is yourself.
If you always have a lot of excuses, you should strive
more to overcome them because you'll be able to
double the achievement. Where the odds are greater,
the prize gets much bigger. After all the efforts you
have exerted, the prize of success shall be a
well-deserved one.
Make sure you have full control of your life. You
should have no problem managing the
things you can control. Don’t let 'excuses' to
control your decisions.
Accept things you cannot control the way they are,
if you cannot do without them. If you can do without them,
leave them and divert your attention to something else
that will make your life more meaningful. Never pick
on something you cannot control and turn it into
'excuses' that will block your success.
So what's your excuse for not being successful?
Answer from today onwards: NONE.
Warmest regards,
Patric Chan
http://www.motivatedforsuccess.com
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